8 February 2012, 4:44 am
I have horrible trust issues and some anger issues on top of that but I don't understand why I get so accusive. I know some reasons are because we both have a not so good passed but not bad enough to break up and that has a huge part in why I am accusive. But the problem here is my relationship is crap because i accuse him all the time and dont believe him because I look up ways on the internet on how to know if someone is lying (I now believe im crazy for listening to them) and it makes everything worse, And as long as the relationship is bad im going to think he has a reason to cheat. Sometimes you can really tell hes lying or tried covering one up but they are usually little things. And weird things happen like the inbox on his phone be completely cleared and be turned off in the bathroom when i found it like that. We share that phone so i dont know if he just didnt care that day where we were arguing and did something that made everything obvious but willing to lie about it no matter what or something happened to the phone to make the messages disapear (all but the picture messages). Im so confused and questioning my sanity. He has gotten a story confused when it came to couple girls he worked with, one day he said he was talking to girl A and the next day he said it was B (a complete different girl). So now he says Im getting way to out of hand with it and that it was an honest mistake. And i believe him about that now, it just took of crap before i did. There's a few other things but I think i have said enough. I made sure i gave the most accurate details... and hes not known to be a cheater but we got together at 14 so we havent had many other relationships before. Who is it?... Him or me?... Read More »
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